Are you....

Friday, May 28, 2010
Leaving bitter feelings behind…

Learning from past mistakes…

Finding happiness within…

Feeling good from the inside will reflect the outside and in that are you taking care of yourselves emotionally and physically…
Ready to Love again?


I know I am, and I hope you are too… and If so, we're moving full force ahead to STEP III and that is creating your Own Matchmaking Map. Before we do that I have a few things to share...

This happens to be a very important step, so get that
purse size notebook out and a pen and get ready…

Finding the perfect man is somewhat similar to finding your perfect house- and this analogy will come in handy a bit later for sure, but for now- the three most important factors in finding your perfect match are a lot like the three important factors in finding your dream house: LOCATION, LOCATION, and LOCATION! Like knowing where you want to live and where would be best for you, in finding the man of our dreams, we have to know where to find him.

Patti shares a few statistics, and since I’m not a huge fan of numbers, I’m only going to skim them over for you… (All of these stats are based on the singles population only)


There are about 6% more single women than men.

There are approximately 25.4 million single guys in the U.S.
between the ages of 25-40.

The cities with at least 40,000 more single women than single men are:
New York/northern New Jersey, Memphis, Atlanta, Philadelphia and Washington D.C.

The New York/northern New Jersey area has about
185,000 more single women than single men.

Patti does not hesitate to tell us that if Love is not working for us where we are currently living that relocating is not a terrible idea. As desperate as it may sound she says that if you were made to transfer for your job, you would do it, so why not transfer somewhere to find true love… which is more satisfying than any job any of us will ever have.

It defniitely puts Finding Mr. Right in perspective... and I find myself wondering...

What is LOVE WORTH?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

It is unwise to obsess about finding a hubby. u should enjoy life 4 what it is and who u r. Being obsessed with this subject *to the extent of referring to a reality TV host as the bible* is unhealthy,

One good orgasm spoils the bunch said...

In my reference to her book as the bible, it is purely satirical and obviously a little ridiculous. At the end of the day I use her book as advice, for me and for people out there who need a little help in the dating world. I do not constantly ponder on finding a husband I do have fun on a day to day basis... unfortunately this blog only harps on one thing.. and that is 8 Easy Steps in finding your Perfect Mate... I use this blog as an outlet to write about something I enjoy and that is Patti Stanger and her advice... she makes me smile :)

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