Admiration

Step 3 of picturing and visualizing the man of your dreams. I dub this 'Admiration' because in this step Patti states,

"I don't care if you're eighteen or eighty, there must be someone you've met along the way with whom you really would have like to have a relationship, if the circumstances were right."

So with this step I have to list 5 reasons that I would WANT to be with someone whom I admire (AND 5 reasons why I would NOT want to be with that person). Whether it be a friends husband, a friends boyfriend or a Hollywood Hottie or a mixture...
Now I'm only 23 so none of my close friends are married...granted I live in the south so I know a large handful of people who are married, I have not begun the "always a bridesmaid, never a Bride" journey... SO... I've made a list, kind of like a compilation of things that make up a few of my friends boyfriends... and older men I admire.

5 things I like:

1. Makes me feel special
2. Sexy "A MAN"
3. Life experience
4. Smart
5. Great sense of humor

Since this is a compilation of people, I do not really have a negative list... but make sure you have a negative list.. just so you can be aware of things that are not deemed attractive.

While we're on the subject, I do imagine this gentleman being older and a bit wiser. I think I want someone who can take care of me... love me and nurture me... even though I am a very nurturing person I want to be treated the same way I want to treat my man, and to do this I think I need an older, smarter and "been around the block once or twice" kind of guy....

What do you think?